When you’re out..

neurodivergent-crow:

pumpkinmcqueen:

pumpkinmcqueen:

Make sure you switch up your routine like how you get home or what time… don’t be predictable for the people keeping track.

Walk with purpose like you know where you are and where you’re going even if you don’t.

Have your keys in hand before you’re at your car or home so you won’t be standing there fumbling.

Have your phone charged and ready but don’t walk with your head down looking at your phone!!! I see this so much 😧.. and keep your location on.

Spin around fast every now and then just to see if anyone’s been watching, averting their gaze, or following you.

Someone need help? They break down? Need help with groceries? If you’re alone that ain’t your business, keep it moving. That’s how you get snatched.

Turn your music down or off so you hear around you. Pay attention to who’s around and for how long. Don’t be afraid to make eye contact to communicate “I remember your face”.. you can even speak.

Don’t put your kid’s name on their stuff because all someone has to do is call their name and say “Johnny your mom said come over here” .. same with you don’t fall for that.

Stay where a lot of people are, like, try not to be standing alone at night at a bus stop.. or walking to class on a deserted path with alleys or bushes, you know?

Don’t flash pricey things. Don’t leave it out in the open in your car. Don’t hold/count money in public.

Don’t meet up alone with someone you just met online or someone you just met period….. people LIE and fake whole personalities and life stories.. it’s EASY especially if they want you for a reason. Have a plan.

Learn some type of self defense and don’t be afraid to permanently injure/kill if need be. Also, I hear yelling “fire” gets more attention than “help”. Go figure.

Which is why if you see something weird happening with someone else or hear them yell in distress…. use your phone to call someone or take a pic, something. Pay attention not just for you, but for others. Never know what you’ll catch.

Also remember that it doesn’t matter who you are, you have enemies. You don’t always know who they are.

learn weak points for maximum self-defense damage and memorize where major arteries are located.
Do not be afraid to kill to survive, because they will not hesitate to kill you.

MOST IMPORTANT:
NEVER ALLOW SOMEONE TO TAKE YOU TO A SECOND LOCATION.

NEVER ALLOW SOMEONE TO TAKE YOU TO THE SECOND LOCATION.

that second location means death. 100% of the time.

so yell, scream, fight, bite, claw, screech, go limp, grab onto a telephone pole, DO EVERYTHING AND ANYTHING NECESSARY TO NOT GO TO THE SECOND LOCATION.
Even if they have a gun on you, using it in public would draw attention, which they usually do NOT want.
But think of it this way: they MIGHT use it on you in public. They’ll DEFINITELY use it on you if you go where they want you to.

If they’re in your car, drive, but break the law. run stop signs, traffic lights, speed, go too slow, weave, appear drunk – anything to draw attention to yourself and get the cops called on you. make sure you are seat belted. crash the car if you have to (as publicly as possible). even if it’s a minor crash and you drive away, people will call the cops.

if you are put in a trunk and there’s no trunk release pull, peel back the carpeting and punch put the brake light from the inside. people will notice a hand waving around from a taillight.

STAY. SAFE.

DO WHAT YOU HAVE TO TO SURVIVE.

gimmeur-tots:

cygnaut:

poesieplease:

whistle-notes:

coldasaslab:

johnstamostimelessbeauty:

Here’s something to chew on.

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honestly

In case you wanna read the article this quote is from: http://rolereboot.org/culture-and-politics/details/2016-05-daughter-know-ok-angry/

Adaptable girls find socially acceptable ways to internalize or channel their discomfort and ire, sometimes at great personal cost. Passive aggressive behavior, anxiety, and depression are common effects. Sarcasm, apathy, and meanness have all been linked to suppressed rage. Troublesome behaviors, such as lying, skipping school, bullying other people, even being socially awkward are often signs that a teenager is dealing with anger that they are unable to name as anger.

Girls, taught to ignore their anger, become disassociated from themselves.

Anger is so successfully sublimated that girls lose the ability to understand what it feels and looks like. Is her heart racing? Does she feel flushed or shaky? Does she clench her jaws at night? Is she breaking out in hives? Does she cry for no reason? Laugh inappropriately during difficult conversations? Fly off the handle over something that seems inconsequential? You can see where I’m going here…those crazy girl hormones, right? Better to just think of it as a phase.

For too many women, however, the phase never ends. It’s lives spent never expressing anger at all and believing that they don’t have the right or ability to do so without great risk.

Ok this is important. I feel like this all the time.